In her late 30s, Tanya Selvaratnam had three miscarriages and began a journey to move through her own grief to an understanding of what modern women endure when they wait to have children. She joins Farai Chideya to talk about her new book, "The Big Lie: Motherhood, Feminism, and the Reality of the Biological Clock."

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