Tough guys, fast cars –  you may tell your children to stay away from such a crowd, but there are actually numerous car clubs that defy that stereotype.  Dr. Brenda Gross-Nixon, aka “The Church Lady,” is part of the Lady Ryderz, who along many other clubs hold fundraisers in Brooklyn to better the community. This past weekend, Circuit Family Police and Clergy held a fundraiser to raise $25,000 for a gun buy-back program.